I will teach shy guys to approach and talk to women step by step
Building confidence, fostering connections, igniting romance
Level 2
Has met high performance criteria and has a proven track record for meeting client expectations.
About this Gig
"I see a woman I like and I freeze."
I hear this constantly. And here's what most men get wrong:
They think something is broken in them. It's not.
Freezing is just your nervous system doing what it learned to do. And you can retrain it in days not years.
Here's what actually happens when you don't have a system:
- You spot her. Your heart races. You do nothing.
- You wait for confidence to magically show up it never does.
- You watch her walk away and feel that familiar punch of regret.
- You tell yourself "next time" but next time looks exactly the same.
Now imagine this instead:
- You see her. You move before your brain can talk you out of it.
- You speak first calm, natural, no rehearsed lines.
- The conversation flows. She's engaged. You're in control.
- Even if she's not interested, you walk away unaffected because rejection now fuels you instead of shrinking you.
This isn't motivation or pickup tactics. It's a step-by-step system that rewires how you show up.
Most of my clients approach their first woman within 72 hours. And it goes better than they ever expected.
You don't need to feel ready. You just need to start.
Qualification :
Master's degree
Relationship type:
Dating & new relationships
Coach's gender:
Male
Coaching focus:
Dating
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FAQ
I've been shy my whole life. Is it too late to change?
No. Shyness is a habit, not a personality type. The brain remains adaptable throughout life — what was learned can be unlearned. Men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s have made this shift. The length of the pattern doesn't determine whether change is possible.
What if I'm introverted — does this still work for me?
Absolutely. Introversion and shyness are not the same thing. Introversion is about energy — you recharge alone. Shyness is about fear — you avoid social situations because they feel threatening. This program works with your introversion, not against it.
Do I need to use lines or scripts?
Never. Scripts are the enemy of real connection — and women can smell them immediately. I teach you principles, not lines. You'll learn how conversation actually works so you can be spontaneous, natural, and genuinely yourself — which is far more attractive than any scripted opener.
What if she rejects me or walks away?
Rejection handled well = confidence builder. Respond with calm acceptance, zero defensiveness. Say: "No worries, thanks for being honest." Then move on smoothly.
Can I approach women anywhere — not just bars and clubs?
Yes — and honestly, day-to-day situations are where this works best. Coffee shops, bookstores, supermarkets, parks, public transport. The system I teach works in any environment because it's based on real human interaction, not nightlife tactics. You'll have a framework that works everywhere.
How is this different from watching YouTube videos about confidence?
YouTube gives you information. Coaching gives you transformation. You already know you should "just be confident." Knowing that hasn't helped. What changes things is working with someone who can see your specific pattern, challenge it directly, and give you a personalised plan.
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A amardeep39

United Kingdom
Was really helpful, definitely would recommend joining him.
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walker_fitness

Canada
Working with Abdel was incredible! You can tell that he has tons of experience and practices what he preaches. Can’t wait to implement his advice and develop my skills. I highly recommend him and will likely work with him again in the near future.
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mr_sustianable

United States
This good sir is very wise, if you didn't have a wise dad or older brother to teach you, Abdel has your back, give him a try!
Up to $50
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10 days
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Helpful?U user85141529

United States
Excellent initial meeting. Good feedback. Good homework. Time to test it out and see the results.
Up to $50
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5 days
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Helpful?R robbworks

Norway
Excellent first session. Will be coming back for more sessions.
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A amardeep39

United Kingdom
Was really helpful, definitely would recommend joining him.
Up to $50
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5 days
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walker_fitness

Canada
Working with Abdel was incredible! You can tell that he has tons of experience and practices what he preaches. Can’t wait to implement his advice and develop my skills. I highly recommend him and will likely work with him again in the near future.
Up to $50
Price
1 day
Duration
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mr_sustianable

United States
This good sir is very wise, if you didn't have a wise dad or older brother to teach you, Abdel has your back, give him a try!
Up to $50
Price
10 days
Duration
Helpful?U user85141529

United States
Excellent initial meeting. Good feedback. Good homework. Time to test it out and see the results.
Up to $50
Price
5 days
Duration
Helpful?R robbworks

Norway
Excellent first session. Will be coming back for more sessions.
Up to $50
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1 day
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