I will give honest dating advice for purpose driven relationships
About this Gig
Are you dating with marriage in mind but feeling confused, frustrated, or emotionally stuck? Youre not alone and you dont have to figure it out by yourself.
I'm Derek Q. Sanders relationship coach, author, and speaker and I help singles gain clarity and confidence in their dating lives through honest, personalized advice.
Whether you're dealing with a situationship, unclear intentions, emotional red flags, or you're just tired of wasting time, I'll help you understand whats really going on and what to do next.
Choose from three levels of support:
Tell Me All About It - Send your dating scenario and receive a thoughtful written Q&A response.
Lets Talk Things Over - A 30-minute live text chat to unpack your concerns and get real-time clarity.
Lets Figure This Out Together - A 60-minute deep-dive coaching session with optional recap and strategy plan. This isnt therapy. Its real talk for real results with your future in mind.
Lets get to the truth, so you can move forward with confidence.
FAQ
Who is this gig best for?
This gig is for singles—especially women—who are dating with purpose and want honest, insight on their relationship situations, intentions, or patterns. If you're serious about love, I'm here to help you date wisely.
What types of questions or situations can I ask about?
Anything related to dating, situationships, emotional confusion, red flags, communication, decision-making, or whether someone is aligned with your long-term goals. No topic is too “small” or too deep.
What do I get in the Basic package?
You’ll submit one dating question or scenario and receive a thoughtful, written response (up to 500 words) with clear, personalized insight—delivered within 2 days.
How does scheduling work for the live chat sessions?
After you order the Standard or Premium package, I’ll message you within 24 hours to coordinate a time that fits your schedule. I offer flexible availability across time zones.
Will you just tell me what I want to hear?
No. I’ll give you respectful, honest feedback that prioritizes your peace, purpose, and long-term relationship goals—not just comfort in the moment.

